That experience taught me that institutions need to be adequately prepared to support lactating parents, and unfortunately many are not. They need to provide ample private space for pumping, refrigerators for milk storage, and sinks in sanitary areas (not bathrooms) where people can clean pump parts between pumping sessions. There is a need for computer workstations to pump and work at the same time, and a culture of support and understanding is paramount. Before residency interviews, I was encouraged not to disclose to programs that I was a parent, and to discreetly ask residents where I could pump. I found this advice frustrating. How could I know if a program were a good fit if they could not demonstrate their willingness to support me as a parent? I decided to take control of the narrative and I began to ask programs how they supported parents. Did they have lactation rooms? Did they have on-site daycare? How many residents were parents? The responses to these questions were extremely telling. On my interview days, some programs offered for me to pump in public classrooms. Others offered locker rooms, and some put me in administrators’ offices. Although it was nice that they tried to accommodate me, it was eye opening that many excellent programs did not have accessible lactation rooms.
As increasing numbers of non-traditional students enter the medical profession, the number of trainees that have children and need to pump is only going to increase. I had my second child during residency and found pumping at Stanford more manageable than it had been at my prior institution; but even so, lactation rooms are often occupied, there is no milk storage available, there are no computer stations in the new lactation rooms, and I still often had to clean pump parts in bathroom sinks. Pumping, breastfeeding, and cleaning pump parts took me four to five hours a day, seven days a week. This means I dedicated about thirty hours per week to nursing my child in addition to seventy to eighty hours per week of clinical work. It was, to say the least, exhausting.
To make breastfeeding feasible, we need unwavering support from our colleagues and institutions. This starts with simple changes that each of us can do: